It feel like it has been forever since the first chastity cage was ordered for hubby... It doesn't just feel like it, it really has been quite awhile. We ordered the first one towards the beginning of December.
The first one we received was an adventure, hilarious yet scary as hell at the same time! It was a metal one that didn't come with an adjustable cock ring. It took hubby forfrickenever to get his balls into it... once that was done we put the metal cage on and attempted to line it up to lock the built in lock. Unfortunately, it wasn't properly lined up and so it locked but WOULD NOT UNLOCK!!!!!
So many many thoughts go through your mind when your hubby is locked in a metal chastity cage and you can't figure out how to get it to unlock. Do you call the fire department? Go to the ER? Try to use bolt cutters on this snug fitting cage and hope and pray you don't cut his cock in the process!?!?!? At times I wanted to cry and after God only knows how long it kind of became comical! All we could do was laugh. Im not sure how I finally got the lock to line up but I did and we were able to get it off. During that we learned two things: first we definitely needed a bigger cock ring part for his balls or one that was two pieces and second we wanted one WITHOUT a built in lock that couldn't just be cut off in an emergency! That one found it new home in the back of the dresser drawer...
Yesterday the second one arrived, it was a white silicone style. I was beyond excited to get him on lockdown so he'd have a constant reminder of who he is devoted to. But I figured it was so closed to Valentine's Day maybe I'd just wait, have a special dinner and one last hoorah before he gets his orgasms denied for a while.
That idea lasted one day! By the time he got home from work I was so curious about how it fit that I told him we were going to put it on tonight instead. He fussed and fought to get the stretchy (not so stretchy) cockering base piece in place around his balls and cock. He finally managed that but not without a great deal of effort. Next, we got the cock holder, plastic strap, button tab, and lock in place. There is no way I could have managed that alone.
Presto! MY COCK was all locked up tight ... or was it? I noticed that as I teased him he could get a hard on but it would cause discomfort and make his balls turn purple. I told him I thought the style could be manipulated in such a way that he could take his cock out and masturbate, which defeated the entire purpose of it in the first place. He disagreed, until about 20 minutes later when I hear him say, "Ut Oh!" and laugh as he pulled the covers back to say he could indeed pull his cock out if he wanted. GRRRRR!
In any case we decide to leave that one on for the night and the next day at work just to see how it works out. I told him the official day would still be Valentine's Day after a nice dinner and some play.
About an hour after he fell asleep he was laying on his stomach when he rolled over and started saying "Oh ouch, it hurts!" I asked him if he wanted me to unlock it and he said, "Yes it is pinching bad." I got the key and unlocked it but he still had to get his hard cock out of the cage. It was not an easy task. He finally managed to do it... as he gets more awake he starts telling me about this dream he was having about being on an "ADULT" vacation at a resort that catered to the lifestyle and he was stuck in his cage as I was making friends with the guys that ran the place. No wonder he was hard!
So, now we wait for yet another style cage to arrive (two more are on the way) to see if one of them will work out. I just want that cock locked down tight! Why is it such a challenge!?
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Thursday, February 2, 2017
Thursday, January 26, 2017
"I want a cock cage to prove my love for you"
If you asked me a month ago if I thought I'd have my hubby of 6 years locked up neat and tidy in a chastity cage I would have answered a very swift "NO!" I'm not even sure at this point how or when this all started. For me this is a very new concept, for him it is something I believe has been the center of a lot of his sexual fantasies.
He confided in me late one night while we were laying in bed that he never wanted me to have a single moment of doubt regarding his love and devotion for me. A good friend had recently been asked for a divorce, out of the blue, by her husband. I think that got both of us thinking how important it was to remained focused on our love for each other. He explained that he wanted me to lock him up so there would never be a question about him cheating. I was on board having been a woman that trusted a man and was hurt by his infidelity.
Within a few days he was sharing different styles of cages he had found on Amazon. We settled on one and placed the order. Then the waiting began. It felt like it would never get here. In the mean time his cock became my obsession. I went from wanting sex once a week to thinking about him and his cock most of my waking moments. I was having him jerk off for me nightly and sometimes even more than once in an evening. Together we were learning about edging, and ruined orgasms.
We have dabbled in and out of the lifestyle for 10 years. It started with going to sex parties regularly. We mainly played with each other with the exception of sex with another man and giving a blow job while hubby was fucking me. We often had oral sex and fucked in front of others and especially loved the dark room. But my favorite part was watching... I guess that makes me a voyeur. We met up with a businessman that was staying at a hotel and we had a great time playing. I had never done anything like that before and I was both scared to death and excited at the same time. We have been playing with this other couple for over two years, just recently though, only the wife because the husband was no longer around. I feel like that has been a bonus for him always having two women, two warm mouths, two dripping wet pussies and four boobs... but I could be wrong because now that I think about it, that was twice the work for him! I have thoroughly enjoyed my one on one time with the wife though. We both started out as bi-curious and now we both admit we are bi because of how much we enjoy playing with each other.
I'm not exactly sure when hubby approached me about fucking other men. He has ALWAYS enjoyed seeing me with other men, even 10 years later bringing up how hot it was to watch me suck on that big cock while he was fucking me. He tells me all the time how he'd love to see me being fucked or giving head to another man. So, I shouldn't have been surprised when he suggested we start working on getting some well hung men vetted. I was apprehensive at first because he has always satisfied me sexually. But the more we talked about it, and the more he reassured me he was ok with it, the better I felt about finding some men to fill me up.
I posted an ad on craigslist. Holy wow did it get A LOT of responses. I was shocked at the amount of real men that would send you pictures of not only their face but their cocks! I was overwhelmed. I weeded through and finally narrowed it down to about 5 men that I found interesting and began corresponding with each.
In the mean time, hubby and I were constantly horny. We had sex or he masturbated for me every single day. Sometimes he would masturbate several times in a row at my request. He was learning the art of ruining orgasms. I was studying my book about how to become a good keyholder. I was getting super excited about the thought of tease & denial and couldn't wait for his cage to arrive!
He confided in me late one night while we were laying in bed that he never wanted me to have a single moment of doubt regarding his love and devotion for me. A good friend had recently been asked for a divorce, out of the blue, by her husband. I think that got both of us thinking how important it was to remained focused on our love for each other. He explained that he wanted me to lock him up so there would never be a question about him cheating. I was on board having been a woman that trusted a man and was hurt by his infidelity.
Within a few days he was sharing different styles of cages he had found on Amazon. We settled on one and placed the order. Then the waiting began. It felt like it would never get here. In the mean time his cock became my obsession. I went from wanting sex once a week to thinking about him and his cock most of my waking moments. I was having him jerk off for me nightly and sometimes even more than once in an evening. Together we were learning about edging, and ruined orgasms.
We have dabbled in and out of the lifestyle for 10 years. It started with going to sex parties regularly. We mainly played with each other with the exception of sex with another man and giving a blow job while hubby was fucking me. We often had oral sex and fucked in front of others and especially loved the dark room. But my favorite part was watching... I guess that makes me a voyeur. We met up with a businessman that was staying at a hotel and we had a great time playing. I had never done anything like that before and I was both scared to death and excited at the same time. We have been playing with this other couple for over two years, just recently though, only the wife because the husband was no longer around. I feel like that has been a bonus for him always having two women, two warm mouths, two dripping wet pussies and four boobs... but I could be wrong because now that I think about it, that was twice the work for him! I have thoroughly enjoyed my one on one time with the wife though. We both started out as bi-curious and now we both admit we are bi because of how much we enjoy playing with each other.
I'm not exactly sure when hubby approached me about fucking other men. He has ALWAYS enjoyed seeing me with other men, even 10 years later bringing up how hot it was to watch me suck on that big cock while he was fucking me. He tells me all the time how he'd love to see me being fucked or giving head to another man. So, I shouldn't have been surprised when he suggested we start working on getting some well hung men vetted. I was apprehensive at first because he has always satisfied me sexually. But the more we talked about it, and the more he reassured me he was ok with it, the better I felt about finding some men to fill me up.
I posted an ad on craigslist. Holy wow did it get A LOT of responses. I was shocked at the amount of real men that would send you pictures of not only their face but their cocks! I was overwhelmed. I weeded through and finally narrowed it down to about 5 men that I found interesting and began corresponding with each.
In the mean time, hubby and I were constantly horny. We had sex or he masturbated for me every single day. Sometimes he would masturbate several times in a row at my request. He was learning the art of ruining orgasms. I was studying my book about how to become a good keyholder. I was getting super excited about the thought of tease & denial and couldn't wait for his cage to arrive!
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