Thursday, February 2, 2017

To lock up or not!

It feel like it has been forever since the first chastity cage was ordered for hubby... It doesn't just feel like it, it really has been quite awhile. We ordered the first one towards the beginning of December.

The first one we received was an adventure, hilarious yet scary as hell at the same time! It was a metal one that didn't come with an adjustable cock ring. It took hubby forfrickenever to get his balls into it... once that was done we put the metal cage on and attempted to line it up to lock the built in lock. Unfortunately, it wasn't properly lined up and so it locked but WOULD NOT UNLOCK!!!!!

So many many thoughts go through your mind when your hubby is locked in a metal chastity cage and you can't figure out how to get it to unlock. Do you call the fire department? Go to the ER? Try to use bolt cutters on this snug fitting cage and hope and pray you don't cut his cock in the process!?!?!? At times I wanted to cry and after God only knows how long it kind of became comical! All we could do was laugh. Im not sure how I finally got the lock to line up but I did and we were able to get it off. During that we learned two things: first we definitely needed a bigger cock ring part for his balls or one that was two pieces and second we wanted one WITHOUT a built in lock that couldn't just be cut off in an emergency! That one found it new home in the back of the dresser drawer...

Yesterday the second one arrived, it was a white silicone style. I was beyond excited to get him on lockdown so he'd have a constant reminder of who he is devoted to. But I figured it was so closed to Valentine's Day maybe I'd just wait, have a special dinner and one last hoorah before he gets his orgasms denied for a while.

That idea lasted one day! By the time he got home from work I was so curious about how it fit that I told him we were going to put it on tonight instead. He fussed and fought to get the stretchy (not so stretchy) cockering base piece in place around his balls and cock. He finally managed that but not without a great deal of effort. Next, we got the cock holder, plastic strap, button tab, and lock in place. There is no way I could have managed that alone.

Presto! MY COCK was all locked up tight ... or was it? I noticed that as I teased him he could get a hard on but it would cause discomfort and make his balls turn purple. I told him I thought the style could be manipulated in such a way that he could take his cock out and masturbate, which defeated the entire purpose of it in the first place. He disagreed, until about 20 minutes later when I hear him say, "Ut Oh!" and laugh as he pulled the covers back to say he could indeed pull his cock out if he wanted. GRRRRR!

In any case we decide to leave that one on for the night and the next day at work just to see how it works out. I told him the official day would still be Valentine's Day after a nice dinner and some play.

About an hour after he fell asleep he was laying on his stomach when he rolled over and started saying "Oh ouch, it hurts!" I asked him if he wanted me to unlock it and he said, "Yes it is pinching bad." I got the key and unlocked it but he still had to get his hard cock out of the cage. It was not an easy task. He finally managed to do it... as he gets more awake he starts telling me about this dream he was having about being on an "ADULT" vacation at a resort that catered to the lifestyle and he was stuck in his cage as I was making friends with the guys that ran the place. No wonder he was hard!

So, now we wait for yet another style cage to arrive (two more are on the way) to see if one of them will work out. I just want that cock locked down tight! Why is it such a challenge!?

The night that Mr. Cowboy went to town!- Jan. 30,2017

Finally! Finally, Mr. Cowboy's schedule worked with ours. We made plans for him to meet us at the Indian Casino where Hubby and I once again got a beautiful suite. He had to take care of some personal responsibilities at home before he could make the 45 minute drive there, so we knew before hand it would be close to 10pm when he'd arrive. We packed up our "special" suitcase of fun and left home that afternoon headed to the Casino.

We made a stop on the way because Hubby wanted me to get something new and sexy to wear. We decided on one of the Valentine's Day sets, a bright red fancy bra with extra thin straps that made a V  between my breast and lacy black and red panties that were open towards the top with cute straps and a bow.

We got checked in to our room about 5:30. Hubby ran me a hot bath to soak and relax in. The jets felt especially good on my back and neck. It felt so good I could have soaked for hours but I had a lot of preparing to do before my date arrived. I got out of the tub and went into the shower. I shaved my lady garden from top to bottom, I washed my hair and the rest of my body, and then shaved my other areas. As I was rinsing the conditioner out of my hair I couldn't help but think of how sexy it would be to have both my Hubby and Mr. Cowboy in this huge shower. I imagined myself bent over giving head while being fucked from behind with the water adding an extra sense of exoticness to the situation. I could already feel myself tingling with excitement just anticipating the fun I was going to have in just 4 more hours. I couldn't stop thinking about Mr. Cowboy's big cock from the videos he sent me of him jacking off to my pics.

I took my time getting ready, paying close attention to every detail. I decided to curl my hair instead of wearing it in Victory rolls. Mr. Cowboy had never seen it down and had no idea it went to my ass. I blew dry my hair and pinned each curl as I went along to help the curl last a bit longer. I knew it wouldn't stay curled long because of the length but once we started playing it didn't matter anyway! Hubby helped me moisturize my entire body and he painted my toenails bright red to match my new sexy bra and panty set.  I finished off my makeup with bright red lipstick...

That was about the time Mr. Cowboy texted me to make sure we were still on for the night. I sent him a pic of me from about mid boobs up, and responded, "Just waiting on you cowboy!" He texted back that he was trying to scroll down to see more boobs but it wasn't working so I sent him a pick of my boobs with the caption, "These?!"  He liked that pic! He complimented me on my hair and mentioned he liked curls. I had made the right choice. And then the final touches, I spayed on my perfume and put on my wedding ring, a necklace, and finally my  "lock & key" anklet. I put the plush hotel robe on and sat on the bed.

I realized I was nervous, really nervous! I was glad I had given myself plenty of time and didn't feel rushed at all. We received a message at 9pm that he would be leaving his house shortly. My heart raced! A bit later he updated us and said he'd be arriving at the hotel at 10:30pm. I kept fidgeting and each time I thought of the movie Pretty Woman, when she was told to stop fidgeting. I tried to watch TV but I could concentrate on what was playing. Hubby had downloaded a few pornos to his phone because it was paired with the hotel TV and they could be playing in the background to help set the mood.

I about jumped out of my skin when his texted arrived saying, "I'm turning into the parking lot now." OH MY GOD, he was here, this was really happening! This felt so different then the previous time were it really wasn't planned. I had way more excitement and buildup leading to this moment. My tummy was doing flip flops and I hoped the butterflies hurry upped and passed.

Hubby went down to the lobby to meet him because you have to have a key to use the elevators. I had to remind myself to breathe... in and out. I was sitting in the bedroom when I heard the living room door to the suite open. I called out to my hubby, "Did you find him?" Why did I say that!? Of course he did or he wouldn't be back! He said yes and I walked out into the living room. The first thing I noticed was he had just gotten a haircut.

Hubby said he was going to run and get some ice down the hall. I asked him if he'd ever been to this hotel before. He said no. I told him how much I loved it and then said, "Come look at this bathroom, it's beautiful!" I opened the double doors leading to the bathroom, we both walked in. I pointed out the obvious, the huge two person jet tub and the great big shower. If he only knew what I'd been thinking about him in that shower. I think I might have blushed a bit remembering earlier. I turned around and he was standing right there. Oh gosh, why does it have to feel so awkward? It felt like the first time I was waiting for my boyfriend to kiss me as a teenager! I reached out and touched his arm. He took me into his arms and began kissing me and holding me tight. He smelled good. His kisses were so different than the way my hubby and I kiss. We kissed for probably closed to a minute, I could hear myself moaning already as he was touching my breast on the outside of the robe. I was so horny! It was already feeling hot between my thighs.

We left the bathroom and were in the bedroom talking about the huge floor to ceiling windows and the view when Hubby returned with the ice. We made a bit of small talk. It was obvious he was very nervous too. Then I said something like, "So, we need to get this started!" I reached over touching his pullover jacket and said take this off as I began helping him remove it. We kissed a little more and then I took the robe off and got on the bed. He removed his shirt and undid his belt. When I saw his belt I remember thinking he's a real cowboy look at that belt! he turned his back as he pulled down his pants and then he climbed into bed next to me wearing only his black boxer briefs. I was in the middle of these two warm men and it felt amazing. I started kissing Mr. Cowboy again and he took one of my boobs out of the bra cup and was rubbing my nipple. I could feel my hubby kissing on me and touching me too. I reached down to feel that big hard cock and as soon as I touched it my pussy throbbed! I couldn't fucking wait to have that in me... in my mouth, in my pussy, in somewhere... hurry!

We made out for awhile before I finally started tugging at his briefs and whispering in his ear, "Take these off." His cock sprung out of those under ware like  it was spring loaded. I gosh it was a gorgeous cock. I moved down until my face was lined up with it and took it into my mouth, first sucking gently on the head and licking softly the sensitive part on the underside of the head. Then I took the whole thing into my mouth and gave it a nice suck from bottom to top. I could feel it going part way down my throat each time I took him all the way into my mouth. I sucked him slow, I sucked him quickly, I sucked him soft, and sucked him hard, I sucked on the head and swirled it around my mouth, I covered my teeth with my lips and I pushed it though the firm entry that created, this cock was amazing. I could feel the wetness starting to actually drip out of me now. Hubby reached into my bright red panties and touched all the silky wetness. He commented about he wet I was and told me to move my ass closer so my Cowboy could see how horny I was too. I continued to suck his cock for quite awhile occasionally tasting a bit of salty precum on my tongue. Once he started playing with my clit I laid on my back and speared my legs. I was so ready to fuck, I needed to feel this new cock inside me. I asked him if he wanted to use a female condom or a regular condom. He said he brought some but hubby mentioned that I was sensitive to latex so we had some latex free ones. Hubby gave it to him and before I knew it he had it on. Fuck did that first penetration feel incredible. He was fucking me while I laid on my back and with each stroke I felt him deep inside me and rubbing so nicely going in and out.  I remember this incredible euphoric feeling I was so close to cumming. We went at it for probably 10 minutes before I felt him cum. He got a look on his face like he did something wrong, it was adorable! He continued to fuck until he went soft.

After he pulled out he took the condom and went to the bathroom. He came back after cleaning himself up and hubby and I were fucking. He laid beside me again and we started kissing and touching each other and making small talk. Hubby started fingering me and I was using my bullet vibrator, it didn't take long for me to come, HARD. Then both Hubby and my Cowboy were touching my body and sucking on my nipples. I was on sensory overload. It is so crazy how and extra set of hands and lips can create such a different experience. It is almost like your brain can't concentrate on all those feeling at once. Before I knew it he was getting hard again. It had only been about 10 minutes, I started giving him head again. I told Hubby I wanted to try the female condom this time because I had never tried them before. He inserted it for me while I continued to suck the Cowboy's cock. Once it was in I got on all fours with my bullet on my clit and Mr. Cowboy got behind me and pushed his hard cock into me again. He fucked for a few minutes but this time he had some issues staying hard. I think it was too soon. I came again just as he was pulling out.

Hubby pulled the condom out of me and disposed of it and the three of us laid there kissing, chatting, and touching each other. I mentioned that I didn't want him to feel he had to stay I knew it was getting late and he had and hour drive home and had to be up at 5am for work. It was now just after midnight. We had been going at it for about and hour and a half...But the longer he laid there  I couldn't help but noticed rather quickly that Mr. Cowboy was really hard again. He said, "I'll never leave if you keep touching me like that and doing this to me." making reference to his hard on.

I felt a tiny bit guilty for teasing his cock again, but another part of me just seemed insatiable and before I knew it I was sucking his cock again. I sucked his cock for about 45 minutes straight while Hubby fingered me fucked me with a huge dildo and ate my pussy. Finally he came REALLY hard. I swallowed his cum and then smiled and kissed hubby and then Cowboy. It was now about 1am. Poor guy wasn't gonna get much sleep tonight! He got up and went to the bathroom and again hubby and I started fucking. I was in heaven. When he returned he and hubby got their clothes on. We kissed and hugged good-bye. I had a smile plastered on my face. As Hubby and he were walking out the door they looked like two partners in crime. Hubby left to walk him downstairs.

When Hubby returned he had bought some food which was perfect because I was so nervous earlier I could barely eat. We ate and talked about how much fun we had and how fucking hot it all was. Before I knew he was going down on me again and as soon as he started to fuck me I already felt like I was on the verge of an orgasm. I never get that close that quick. I continued to have several O's before Hubby finally came. I was throughly exhausted and for lack of a better explanation royally fucked good!

The next day Mr. Cowboy and I exchanged texts. I told him a was sorry he didn't get much sleep and how awesome the night was for me and he said it was worth it. I also said I was sorry if he felt like I was sucking the life out of him (because I got worried when I asked hubby if you can give head so long that it no longer feels good and he said yes) but he said that wasn't a problem at all, which was a huge relief!

...I can't wait to do it again!

Thursday, January 26, 2017

January 24, 2016- Mr. Cowboy #2

On the way home from the casino we made a date for another meet and greet. This time it was a tall and handsome real live cowboy!

We planned to met him around 4pm at a bar in a college town along our drive. We got there a bit before him. I picked a booth away from the other patrons and as far from the bar as possible. I wanted to be able to talk naughty and not worry about being heard.

Hubby went to the bar to get a couple of beers. I got a text letting me know he was here. He opened the door and stepped in. Butterflies took flight in my tummy! He looked more handsome in person. He had beautiful eyes a great smile and man was he tall! He sat down across the booth from me and I explained that hubby was getting drinks. We chatted a bit about his work and I couldn't help but feel my face smiling. Hubby came over with a sample of a beer for me to try. When he headed back to the bar Mr. Cowboy joined him.

As I sat nervously and alone at the table millions of thoughts raced through my head. I was so happy he was good looking. I thought of the video he sent me of him rubbing his cock while looking at my pics. I thought about the video he sent me a couple of days later that showed him jerking of and cumming on the tablet with my pics showing.

My cowboy only had an hour because his son had a basketball game. We talked a lot and it was interesting conversation. Towards the end we discussed how we were going to make this happen.
I was horny as hell again and just really wanted to get my hands on that thick long cock of his.

Unfortunately, we were out of time for today. He gave me a big tight hug and said good-bye. I felt tiny in his arms! He closed his tab out and came over to the table again to say bye.

We sat there for a bit longer as I finished my beer and we chatted about how we felt it went. I was very pleased. Hubby thought he was very genuine and a better fit for an ongoing thing. I just wanted to get the show on the road! Make this happen. Get that cock in my mouth and then in my wet pussy!

January 23, 2016- the first time gitters

I had been corresponding pretty regularly and exchanged pics with Mr. R.N., a black man who had a nice looking cock, good career and a Nigerian accent. We made arrangements to meet up with him to have a drink and chat (meet & greet) We met on a Monday evening around 9pm at an Indian Casino that also had a beautiful hotel. Hubby and I had a room for the night but went into this meeting with no intention of inviting him to play. He mentioned he needed to leave by 11pm, due to it being a work night, when we were discussing getting together.

I was so nervous all day leading up to this date. I spent extra time on my hair and make-up. I also paid close attention to my lady garden just in case there was a slim chance I might be sharing it with someone new. I picked out and outfit I felt was flattering with a low neckline.

Just before 9pm we headed to the Casino bar and found a seat off to the side hoping it might offer us enough privacy to chat with Mr. R.N.  He and I messaged back and forth using Kik. Hubby was at the bar getting us a drink when I looked at my phone screen and read the words, "I'm here, I'm in the black jacket." I looked up and he was standing just a few feet from where I was sitting. He had already spotted me and when I looked up from my phone he greeted me with a huge smile. I stood up and we hugged and he kissed my check. We sat and began to make small talk. I felt like it was taking forever for hubby to return from the bar with that liquid courage!

The three of us sat chatting for about  20 minutes. I was already feeling very comfortable. He complimented me several times telling me how good I looked and how happy he was that I looked like the pics I sent to him. He had a great smile and he kept flashing it at me. It ended up being a bit loud for comfortable conversation. I kept thinking I wanted to talk about sexual things but the setting wasn't right. Finally I just blurted out, "I think we should go upstairs to our room so we could talk more." Hubby and Mr. R.N. agreed.

Once we were in our suite we got comfortable in the living room area. We talked more about the experiences he had with other couples. I was intrigued because I always worry about getting robbed or murdered meeting people from the internet! He said he has had great luck. After about 20 more minutes passed I finally made my move. I said, "I think everyone should get a blow job!" I didn't get any resistance!

We headed into the bedroom. I went to the bathroom and the two guys got comfy. When I came out I noticed Mr. R.N. was naked so I removed everything except my panties and headed to the bed where my hubby and the man I just met were waiting.

Mr. R.N. started sucking on my breast. I couldn't stop taking peeks at his cock. It was hard and I was happy with what he had to offer. He and I kissed while hubby touched my naked body. I moved into a position where I could put his hard cock into my warm wet mouth. I devoured it. I licked, kissed, stroked, sucked, and deep throated his beautiful cock. He was very vocal and his body stuttered continually. After several minutes of sucking on him my hubby reached down between my legs to find my pussy dripping wet with excitement. Mr. R.N. moved so he could suck on my boobs and touch my wetness. He began to finger my G spot. Hubby helped him to do it just how I like it and I came rather quickly. He asked if he could fuck me from behind and I said, "Only oral no sex tonight." Oral wasn't even on the original agenda I certainly wasn't planning to fuck him!  I went back to sucking him. After about a 40 minutes blow job I finally asked, "Are you one of those guys that doesn't come from a blow job!?" He responded, "Yes" with a smile. Damn that would have been a good thing to know about 30 minutes ago! I laid back and both my guys started sucking on my hard nipples again.  Hubby was touching my engorged pussy. God damn I wanted to feel that hard cock in me. As I was being fingered I blurted, "Get a condom!" It seemed like only a second or two passed and the condom was on my new friend and he was fucking me from behind. He fucked and fucked my pussy so hard and deep and fast. After a good long time and a variety of positions I laid on my back feeling blissfully exhausted.

Mr. R.N. reached between my legs again and rubbed my clit and then slid his fingers into my pussy. What he was doing felt great but it wasn't going to make me cum. Just as I was thinking that, hubby grabbed a hold of Mr. R.N.'s forearm and helped him to move it quickly up and down rather than in and out. I felt that amazing orgasm sensation begin to pulse thru my body starting at my feet. A few more seconds of that rhythm and I was climaxing. I squirted. It was so intense that it sprayed all the way to below my knees. Both guys seemed pleased and if that had been a sporting event they would have been high-fiving each other! I had never done that in front of any one except my hubby. It was a bit awkward but I just got back out of my head and laid there and simply enjoyed the aftercare; petting holding and kissing these two men were showering me with.

It was long after 11pm at this point and I felt guilty. Mr. R.N. hadn't even had an orgasm yet. We talked about how late it was getting and he decided he should get going. He got up, used the bathroom. Put his jeans and shirt on and stuffed his under ware into his back pocket!

Hubby walked him to the Suite door and he left. Hubby and I decided to get into the spa tub together. We sat in the cozy warm tub and debriefed about all that had taken place that evening. He was proud of how blunt and forward I was. We got out of the tub and then had some really great sex. He reminded me how hot he thought it was when I squirted... told me how sexy I looked with my hand wrapped around his dark cock. He said he really enjoyed watching my face as I as fucking doggie style.

I felt high. I'd say #1 hot wife experience was a success...

"I want a cock cage to prove my love for you"

If you asked me a month ago if I thought I'd have my hubby of 6 years locked up neat and tidy in a chastity cage I would have answered a very swift "NO!" I'm not even sure at this point how or when this all started. For me this is a very new concept, for him it is something I believe has been the center of a lot of his sexual fantasies.

He confided in me late one night while we were laying in bed that he never wanted me to have a single moment of doubt regarding his love and devotion for me. A good friend had recently been asked for a divorce, out of the blue, by her husband. I think that got both of us thinking how important it was to remained focused on our love for each other. He explained that he wanted me to lock him up so there would never be a question about him cheating. I was on board having been a woman that trusted a man and was hurt by his infidelity.

Within a few days he was sharing different styles of cages he had found on Amazon. We settled on one and placed the order. Then the waiting began. It felt like it would never get here. In the mean time his cock became my obsession. I went from wanting sex once a week to thinking about him and his cock most of my waking moments. I was having him jerk off for me nightly and sometimes even more than once in an evening. Together we were learning about edging, and ruined orgasms.

We have dabbled in and out of the lifestyle for 10 years. It started with going to sex parties regularly. We mainly played with each other with the exception of sex with another man and giving a blow job while hubby was fucking me. We often had oral sex and fucked in front of others and especially loved the dark room. But my favorite part was watching... I guess that makes me a voyeur. We met up with a businessman that was staying at a hotel and we had a great time playing. I had never done anything like that before and I was both scared to death and excited at the same time. We have been playing with this other couple for over two years, just recently though, only the wife because the husband was no longer around. I feel like that has been a bonus for him always having two women, two warm mouths, two dripping wet pussies and four boobs... but I could be wrong because now that I think about it, that was twice the work for him! I have thoroughly enjoyed my one on one time with the wife though. We both started out as bi-curious and now we both admit we are bi because of how much we enjoy playing with each other.

I'm not exactly sure when hubby approached me about fucking other men. He has ALWAYS enjoyed seeing me with other men, even 10 years later bringing up how hot it was to watch me suck on that big cock while he was fucking me. He tells me all the time how he'd love to see me being fucked or giving head to another man. So, I shouldn't have been surprised when he suggested we start working on getting some well hung men vetted. I was apprehensive at first because he has always satisfied me sexually. But the more we talked about it, and the more he reassured me he was ok with it, the better I felt about finding some men to fill me up.

I posted an ad on craigslist. Holy wow did it get A LOT of responses. I was shocked at the amount of real men that would send you pictures of not only their face but their cocks! I was overwhelmed. I weeded through and finally narrowed it down to about 5 men that I found interesting and began corresponding with each.

In the mean time, hubby and I were constantly horny. We had sex or he masturbated for me every single day. Sometimes he would masturbate several times in a row at my request. He was learning the art of ruining orgasms. I was studying my book about how to become a good keyholder. I was getting super excited about the thought of tease & denial and couldn't wait for his cage to arrive!